Dr. Dave & Friends
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Enjoy amazing input from North America’s Top Marriage and Family Experts! We asked some of our good friends – Gary Smalley, Kevin Leman, Gary Chapman, Erwin McManus and more – to answer on camera some of your toughest questions. The results are incredible and in 90 seconds or less – ideal for passing along to others. They are listed both by Topic and by Expert. Choose how you want to access them.
ON MARRIAGE
- Does God have much to say about our Marital Commitment? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can I keep my single friends after I am married? With Dr. John Van Epp & Dr. Morgan Van-Epp Cutlip
- How can we affair proof our Marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I cut off an attraction at work? With Dave Carder
- How do you keep marriage a priority even through busy work seasons? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you keep your marriage a priority? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you prevent divorce when you’re from a family with many divorces? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- How does God fit into our Lifetime Partnership? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How important should health and fitness be in marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How long do you hang in on your marriage before you can say it is done? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is it better to stay together for the kids or not? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How significant should we really feel about our vows? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we balance the need for extra work hours and family time? With Dr. Jim Burns
- What is a life partner? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What was the most difficult part of being a cop’s wife? With Bob Hamer
- Whats the best way to handle old boyfriends and old girlfriends? with Dr. Dave Currie
- When is it time to go for counselling to face our issues? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Where does faithfulness in your marriage start? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why are making changes in my life showing love to my mate? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why does sharing history matter? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why is old love more special than young love? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are a few good boundaries to have in our marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are a few tips about coordinating our schedules? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are the secrets of balancing work and family? Dr. Gary Smalley
- What are wise boundaries for women to avoid affairs? With Becky Baker
- What are wise marital boundaries for being on Facebook? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are your favorite insights from the Divorce Remedy book? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- What can I do to avoid repeating my parents divorce? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- What do I do if my spouse’s commitment to marriage is faltering? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if a person at work treats me far better than my spouse? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if I think I married the wrong person? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if divorce is feeling like a good option? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you balance starting a family with a career? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Can we be close friends and not have much time together? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How does God fit into Close friendship in marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is kissing away from the bedroom different than kissing inside? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we keep good dating habits when busy? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- How do we rekindle the joy in our friendship? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How do we salvage a marriage that’s lost its sparkle? With Mark Gungor
- How do we stay close without having a lot of things in common? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a Close Friend? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is Happy Camper Dating? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the Value of doing things Together? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are some fun ways to stay connected as friends? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are some things we can do to keep Dating in our Marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What can we do to Maintain Attraction to each other? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are some tips on how to have a great life together? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- Why should I make A big Deal of special Occasions? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Does God have much to say about our emotional closeness? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Explain hugs that aren’t going anywhere. What do you mean? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can I help my husband feel safe to share hurts with me? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How can I show my wife that I care for her? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- How can men encourage their wives who are over 40? With Pam Farrel
- How do I get my husband to share more deeply about our marriage? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How do I get my spouse to meet my needs? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do I get my spouse to open up? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do you respect a man unconditionally? With Mark Gungor
- How do you stay connected on a limited schedule? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you tolerate a spouse who always has to be right? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How much romance is needed to keep a woman happy? with Dr. Dave Currie
- I don’t believe he respects my opinion. What now? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is honesty really the best policy? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is keeping secrets from your spouse about work a good idea? With Bob Hamer
- My husband doesn’t get my emotional needs. What now? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I handle a spouse who is making no effort in the Marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I handle anger problems? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- How do I handle my spouse’s habits that frustrate me? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I know if I can trust my spouse with my fears? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we apply the 5 love languages? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we create an intimate marriage using A.W.E.? With Dr. Jim Burns
- How do we get to soul talk where you share at the deepest level? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we keep getting to know eachother better? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How do we share our expectations about marriage? With Julie Baumgardner
- What is the best way to tell your spouse they have hurt you? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the greatest gift a person can give to their spouse? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a trusted confidante? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is at the Heart of Romance? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the place of Affirmation? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Where could you have improved as a husband? With Bob Hamer
- Why do so many Couples grow apart Relationally? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are a few Tips on Improving Romance in our Marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What can I do to show More Love with my Gifts? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What can we do to develop a deepening connection between us? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What do I do if I feel we are growing apart? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What do I do if I really don’t feel understood by my spouse? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are the Top Thrill Romance Killers in Marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are the 5 Love Languages? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What do we do if our Chemistry is Fading? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What does connecting really mean in marriage? With Dr. Pat Love
- What does Helping each other out do to our Connection? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What does the word honor mean in a marriage? Dr. Gary Smalley
- What if my needs aren’t being met and he seems oblivious to it? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I get my request across without nagging? With Mark Gungor
- How do I get my spouse talking more? with Dr. Dave Currie
- I have a greater need for talking than my mate. What now? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is it possible to understand women? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Negative communication patterns couples have to work through? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- Splitting home care responsibilities, both are Working? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Talk is cheap. He says he will do something but doesn’t. What then? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we get into deeper conversations? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we stay connected without having to talk about everything? With Dr. Pat Love
- Why is it hard to start sharing heart to heart with your spouse? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are some tips for better communication? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- What are some ways to improve our communication? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if I feel my spouse is preoccupied and not listening to me? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if I feel they are not interested enough in me and my concerns? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can we fight better to resolve more issues? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- How can we make our conflicts more constructive? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How can we resolve our conflicts better? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is my resentment out of control?
- My mate doesn’t validate my pain and downplays our frustrations? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we break the cycle of poor conflict resolution? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- How do we handle lingering unresolved issues? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How do we keep from bringing up old issues when in disputes? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How do we resolve many issues from past arguments? With Dr. Pat Love
- What if we Fight over what we want to do on a Date? With Dr. Dave Currie
- What if you share a moment of success or joy and are belittled? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why can’t my wife left go and forgive after we resolve issues? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- What do we do if our talking always ends up in a fight? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do you advise parents through their teens rebellion? With Phil Cann
- Can we grow old without growing lame sexually? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- Does god have much to say about our sex life? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can I make sex better for my wife? With Mark Gungor
- How can we regain a relationship so having sex doesn’t feel cheap? With Dr. Pat Love
- How do I deal with my husband’s greater need for sex? Dr. Gary Smalley
- How do you get more and better sex? Dr. Gary Smalley
- How do you maintain a healthy sex life once you’re married? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- How do you maintain an erection during foreplay? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- How frequent is enough? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How does a man learn self-control to wait to join his wife? Dr. Gary Smalley
- How is kissing a critical part of foreplay? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How often is normal with sexual frequency? With Dr. Kevin Leman
- Sometimes we are just too tired for sex the gaps are growing. With Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I get my wife more interested in having sex? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- How do I get myself in the mood for sex? With Dr. Scott Haltzman
- How do I get over hesitation about sex toys and enhancements? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- How do I talk to my husband about his low sexual interest? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- How do we balance unequal sex drives? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- How do we break out of boring sexual routines? Dr. Gary Smalley
- How do I regain my sex interest after having a baby? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we decide on sexual frequency? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we get over the sameness in our sex life? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we get to an agreement on frequency of sex? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do we face the pressures of being overweight in our sex life? With Dr. Kevin Leman
- How do you determine what’s right and wrong for you sexually? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- How do you enjoy intimacy with newborn baby pressures? With Dr. Kevin Leman
- How do you agree on frequency with differing interest levels? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- How do we share accommodations with family & keep our sex life alive? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- What if we can’t find a way for my wife to reach orgasm? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a Passionate lover? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is sex for him sex for her and sex for both? with Dr. Dave Currie
- When is sex good? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why should a low desire spouse set the frequency level of sex? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are a few ideas to heat things up again sexually? With Dr. Kevin Leman
- What are the secrets to help my wife reach orgasm? Dr. Gary Smalley
- What are the steps to increase sexual variation between us. With Eryn-Faye Frans
- What are the three most commonly used sex aids? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- What are three ways to assist my wife in achieving orgasm? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- What are your favorite insights from the Sex-Starved Marriage book? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- What do we need to be aware of in post-menopausal sex? With Eryn-Faye Frans
- How can understanding our Soul Cravings improve our marriage? With Erwin McManus
- How does living wide awake affect a person’s life? With Erwin McManus
- What about contrasting belief backgrounds one of faith and no faith? With Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we handle differing faith backgrounds? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a soul mate? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the best way to work through your values and beliefs? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is braiding God into your marriage look like? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the significance of finding your purpose in life? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why do you recommend Jesus to couples? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are your reasons for writing Wide Awake? With Erwin McManus
- What is your story behind Soul Cravings? With Erwin McManus
- What are practical tools for Finding your purpose in life? With Erwin McManus
- What are a few reasons for praying together as a couple? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What if I feel that the Bible has ideals that can’t be attained? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do cops help their families feel good about their work? With Bob Hamer
- How do couples reconnect sexually after an affair? With Becky Baker
- How do we limit the temptations on the online Social Network? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we make better decisions together? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How do you encourage dads to be great husbands and fathers? With Erwin McManus
- What is the best way to talk openly about infertility? With Becky Baker
- What are some tips for women going into their 40’s? With Pam Farrel
- What if my spouse doesnt care about how they look anymore? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Do I lower my expectations to get a date or stay single? With Dr. John Van Epp
- Do you have any tips for online dating? With Dr. John Van Epp
- How do single women find the right guy? With Mark Gungor
- How do the principles of Soul Cravings apply to singles? With Erwin McManus
- How can singles stay connected with their married friends? With Dr. John Van Epp
- How do I find a person who isn’t divorced? With Dr. John Van Epp
- How do you know when you’re ready to get married? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How in the world do you ask a girl on the first date? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you wisely ask a date if they were married before? With Dr. John Van Epp
- How long should we date before getting married? With Julie Baumgardner
- How long should you date before you get engaged? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is it important to tell your fiancé everything about your past? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Is it wrong to marry someone who isn’t spiritually committed? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Should I have a list of the kind of person I want to marry? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you approach a friend when you don’t agree with their engagement? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you choose between 2 equal candidates for marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the ideal length for a healthy engagement? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the importance of premarital counselling? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What topics do we need to talk about before marriage? With Julie Baumgardner
- What is the right age to get married? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a primed pre-married with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why do I keep having quality dates within months turn into losers? With Dr. John Van Epp & Dr. Morgan Van-Epp Cutlip
- Any advice for single parents in parenting alone? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- Do you have to get along with your fianceé’s family? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are other ways to meet people without dating? With Dr. John Van Epp
- What are some red flags of concern when engaged? With Julie Baumgardner
- What do you do if the family doesn’t support your marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What do I need to know about living together? With Julie Baumgardner
- What are some great tips for dating? With Dr. John Van Epp
- How should single parents handle the teen years? With Tamara Strijack
- As newlyweds, how do we revamp our social lives with new friends? With Dr. Pat Love
- How can we improve our first five years of marriage? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How do you go from “me” of singleness to “we” in marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What does a newlywed wife need to know about man’s sexual needs? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How can we get caught up financially in serious debt? With Bill & Pam Farrel
- How early should we start saving after married? With Brad Willems
- How much should we save monthly? With Brad Willems
- Now out of debt, where should we start investing? With Tim Lesnick
- How do we come to agree on spending and money issues? With Julie Baumgardner
- How do we come to agree on the level of risk in investing? With Tim Lesnick
- How do we deal with our difference spending habits? With Brad Willems
- How do we discuss over-spending better? With Tim Lesnick
- How do you determine if you can afford to buy a house? With Brad Willems
- What is your advice on using credit cards? With Brad Willems
- How should we start educational savings for our kids? With Tim Lesnick
- Should we even out our giving to our kids in our will? With Tim Lesnick
- How do we limit the financial advice from parents? With Tim Lesnick
- What are the best ways to cut back financial debt? With Brad Willems
- Am I really to blame for his anger? Dr. Steven Stosny
- How can I deal with my wife’s reactions due to past sexual abuse? With Dr. Pat Love
- How can I forgive the countless harsh words spoken to me? Dr. Steven Stosny
- How can I get healed from the fear of more abuse? Dr. Steven Stosny
- How do I get my husband to seek help for his anger? Dr. Steven Stosny
- Why does he hurt me even though he says he loves me? Dr. Steven Stosny
- How should I confront my husband about his pornography? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- My husband wants to watch porn with me. Should I? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I tell my wife about my porn addiction? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do I get over the feeling of betrayal with his pornography? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do we discuss the relationship between my porn issues and no sex? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- What if my spouse downplays his porn involvement? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do we handle discovering my teen viewing porn? With Dr. Doug Weiss
- How do I disengage from the woman’s children I had an affair with? With Dave Carder
- How can we recover after an affair? With Dr. Michele Weiner-Davis
- How can you tell if your Spouse is having an Emotional Affair? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do Affairs begin? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I best ask my husband to choose her or me? With Dave Carder
- How do I forgive my husband for cheating on me? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I handle my husbands jealousy of me talking to another man? With Dr. Sue Johnson
- How do I prepare for running into my husband’s ex-lover? With Dave Carder
- How do we begin to recover after Infidelity? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we safely talk through issues that existed prior to the affair? With Dave Carder
- What are the reasons given by women for having an affair? With Becky Baker
- What barriers do children of divorce face communicating once married? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- What ways are adult children affected by their parents divorce? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- My ex keeps trashing me to the kids or questioning my decisions? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Our kids don’t want anything to do with their other parent. What do I do? with Dr. Dave Currie
- I regret what our divorce is doing to our children. How do we lessen it? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are the secrets of blending a family? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can I help my kids through our divorce? With Drs. Tom and Beverly Rogers
- How can I help my son through our divorce? With Dr. Kevin Leman
- How do we tell our Children about our decision to Separate? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we tell the kids about our decision to separate? With Dave Carder
- How do you keep a sense of stability with a child living in two homes? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you merge traditions and rituals in a blended family? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- How do you celebrate kid’s events in 1st year after separation? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- How do you know you are over your baggage from your first marriage? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How long should you wait before you get remarried? with Dr. Dave Currie
- I didn’t want the divorce. I thought the marriage was worth salvaging. What now? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is a divorce survivor? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What advice would you give 2nd marriage couples? With Julie Baumgardner
ON PARENTING
- Do you have tips for talking to our kids about sex? With Dr. Jim Burns
- Either you train your kids or they train you. Explain? with Dr. Dave Currie
- As a single mom, how do I teach boys about sex? With Dr. Jim Burns
- What do you teach a daughter before she gets married? With Erwin McManus
- What tips do you have for parents in an X-rated world? With Dr. Jim Burns
- When do you give a child an allowance? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- What is some advice for parents about safeguarding kids from predators? With Bob Hamer
- How can a parent spot a pedophile? With Bob Hamer
- How can I help my young teen girls with modesty? With Dr. Jim Burns
- How can we get kid’s chores done with less stress? With Dr. Jim Burns
- How do I raise a boy in today’s culture? With Erwin McManus
- How do I raise a confident child? One who isn’t run over. with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I raise a girl in today’s culture? With Erwin McManus
- How does the role of dad change as the child matures? With Erwin McManus
- How many outside activities can a child handle at one time? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- How do you reassure parents who are paranoid re: child abuse? With Bob Hamer
- Should I be worried about children who develop slower? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What are first steps to address eating disorders? With Dr. Jim Burns
- What are the benefits of talking to your kids about sex? With Dr. Jim Burns
- How do we know if we are spoiling our kids? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is good discipline for a teenager? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- What is the secret to disciplining without anger? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- How can we stop the habit of using threats as discipline? Dr. Kevin Leman
- How do I discipline well and still enjoy time with my kids? With Erwin McManus
- How do we agree on levels of discipline with each other’s kids? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do we discipline kids with different tempurments? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- How do we handle severe reactions to our discipline? With Kelly Nault-Matzen
- How do you handle when a kid talks back to you? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How should we change our discipline as kids become teenagers? With Dr. Jim Burns
- What could parents say to teens re: transition into adulthood? With Tamara Strijack
- Why are family celebrations important in life? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- What is a good place for starting family traditions? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- What is the purpose of a parent-child date? With Dr. Jim Burns
- Is there such a thing as praising your kids too much? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you get through to an anti social teen? With Phil Cann
- How do you stay connected when you travel a lot with work? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How should dads better love their teenagers? With Phil Cann
- How should moms better love their teenagers? With Phil Cann
- What advice can parents give teens about gaining adult status? With Tamara Strijack
- What advice for parents getting ready for the teen years? With Tamara Strijack
- How do we plan a great family vacation? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- Why are firstborns so often perfectionists? With Dr. Bill Doherty
- How should grandparents best engage with a newly adopted child? With Becky Baker
- What important messages can a parent give to an adopted child? With Becky Baker
- What is the best way to handle the child’s interest in birth parents? With Becky Baker
- Can adoptive parents go through post partum depression? With Becky Baker
- How can a couple deal with their fears in adoption? With Becky Baker
- What is a wise parent? with Dr. Dave Currie
- What is the best way to transfer your values to your kids? with Dr. Dave Currie
- Why is it critical to get on the same page as parents? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How can I be a role model to community kids? With Erwin McManus
- How do I better handle fights with my teenage daughter? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do I get my spouse to help out more with the kids? with Dr. Dave Currie
- How do you raise a son to be a good husband and dad? With Mark Gungor